Ashley Barnes is noted for his ability to knock about and play aggressively. He is seldom a flashy player, as he is quite a straightforward and aggressive player in terms of style, which he accomplishes by utilising his physical ability and strength to rattle defenders. First and foremost, Barnes is a great ball holder, bringing all his physical presence and power to get defenders and the ball close to him, so he can create opportunities for his teammates, he provides a constant physical threat to defenders each time he is on the pitch, and much of the time his presence will draw external attention from the defenders which will free up space for others to take advantage of.
As a player, Barnes is also a threat from indirect set-plays due to his ability in the air, so defenders have to be often mindful of indirect plans that may lead to a goal. Finally, Barnes's aggressive disposition towards the game makes him a very hard player to go up against.
Some people may have described playing against Barnes as ugly or overly aggressive, but in terms of actual point of view, Barnes said he is not just a ‘battering ram’, he believes himself to have a decent level of technique than he is given credit for. This would be completely supported throughout his career with regard to scoring goals or creating chances in important moments, when it matters.
Barnes has been with his long-term partner, Zan Barnes, for about 15 years, and has given support throughout his career. His wedding anniversary was even mentioned on social media, with Barnes calling Zan the love of my life and best friend, and expressing love and appreciation, as one would expect. The two have a son named Flynn, and while they do not share many details about being a family, they are a family that values their privacy. Even though Ashley's work is public, there is not much public of family life. Even in low-key settings where the families get together, there are only rare selfies. For example, after Burnley got promoted to the Premier League, Barnes pointed to how important it was that his children were able to watch him during his playing days, and the closeness with the club. Ashley Barnes family includes his wife, who have been with him through the highs and lows of his footballing career - from his lower league days, to some great seasons in the Premier League. His wife has been a consistent ally through the pressures of being a professional athlete, which is probably why they have been together for more than 15 years, based on a mutual sense of loyalty, trust, and values.
Fans recognise Barnes as a fierce competitor and a player who demonstrated in big moments, but beyond his professional life, there is a person who has negativity taken away from family, and is genuine in his love for family. He remains extremely proud of the strength of his marriage and fatherhood.